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welcome to girlfriends with aging parents

how do you find a competent, caring doctor for your elderly parents?

We are about to change my elderly parents primary physician. A geriatric internist, he is friendly but his follow-up is terrible. Medications that he has prescribed and need his approval for refill languish for weeks, somewhere in limbo, and require multiple calls to get filled. Each of my parents take nearly 20 pills apiece and feels that they are overmedicated. When they have asked him about this, he seems unfamiliar with what he has prescribed for them and states that he will taper them down and then does nothing. They feel that this doctor prescribes pills to mask aches and pains but does little to find the source. However, who is willing to take on new patients in their mid-80’s with numerous ailments, albeit age appropriate?

It is not news that our healthcare system is failing. HMO’s are on the lookout for healthy, profitable patients, according to doctors David Himmelstein and Steffie Woodhandler in “For Patients, Not for Profits”:

Not surprisingly, research shows high satisfaction and good outcomes for healthy HMO members. But even the best HMOs under treat the sick. HMO stroke patients get less rehabilitation and more often end up in nursing homes. Medicare HMO patients are denied needed home care. Depressed patients in HMOs are less likely to be diagnosed, get less treatment, and are more frequently disabled by their illness. Poor, sick patients have a 21% higher risk of dying in HMOs than in fee-for-service care.

How does one go about finding the increasingly rare, caring, responsible doctor willing to treat failing, elderly patients? Your feedback on your experiences would be really appreciated.

 

 

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is she over medicated?

My mom is not herself, but who could be when taking 19 different medications a day for various conditions? Is she over-medicated? Probably, but her doctor has prescribed and is very aware of every pill she takes. Which pill or pills would mom want to give up, as she has been reassured that each is necessary in itself? Her doctor seems to become indignant when she questions him about this.

A friend in the retirement home she lives in was talkative and vivacious. In the last few weeks this woman has become withdrawn and shaky. She had complained of headaches and is now taking medication to alleviate the pain, but at what price? Where is the Nancy we knew?

Drugs do save lives, treat symptoms and alleviate pain but how does one deal with the psychological side effects? According to Health Watchers’ News and Views in a November 2010 article, “Experts estimate that up to one-third of the elderly in our communities may be over-medicated and some 20% of their hospital admissions are due to adverse drug events. The costs related to over-medication in the elderly are thought to exceed $80 billion each year.”

Help me help my mom. What has been your experience with over medication in a loved one and how have you approached/confronted her primary physician? I could use some guidance as I tackle this seemingly delicate, but also crucial and common situation. Written by girlfriend in Iowa, Susan

 

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