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welcome to girlfriends with aging parents

’tis the season – rave

In the midst of this holiday season I have come upon others who have inspired & enlightened me. Instead of the usual frantic internal feelings this time of the year causes me, I am in a more serene place. Why? Two things happened.

First, I went to a book signing for Linda Cohn, author of “1,000 Mitzvahs”. Why did she inspire me? Because she chose a project, to do one thousand acts of kindness, to honor her father after he passed away. The discussion at the event was robust. Questions like “what counts?” If you begin an act of kindness & it does not come to fruition, does it count? I began to see how our perspective & daily outlook effects how we feel. These, even simple deeds, can bring personal gain.

The second thing that I feel energized by is a project inicated  by Kaycee Krysty, the former CEO and now “president emerita” of the Seattle wealth management firm, Laird Norton Tyee. Kaycee “believes baby boomers are redefining an age once known as the end of work and productivity. She is challenging her generation to write 65 words on turning 65. I applaud her ambition to create a culture of aging that is life-affirming, satisfying & meaningful.

As we approach the end of the year, I am finding ways to avoid the “doom & gloom” mentality of the past & live in the moment with a more positive outlook. If it is true that “we are our thoughts” then we certainly can contribute to the quality of our day.

Please share your wisdom with us …. this is how we learn …. we all have a story ….

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funeral – rituals & traditions – viewing the body?

Pertaining to death & burial procedures each culture & religion has its own traditions. I recently lost my step mother. Before the funeral I was told that the family would have access to viewing the body prior to the service. Let me say that I was completely torn about how I felt about that and what I wanted to do. Truly, I had NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT BEFORE! Seriously, I was perplexed about what a good choice would be for me.

I decided that NO CHOICE was where I stood until the eleventh hour when I was at the cemetery. The family all gathered along with the clergy. I filed into the viewing room behind my brother and made a decision at that exact moment to look at her……. I will say that in retrospect I am happy with my decision. She looked like she was asleep and very much at peace.

My pearls of wisdom…..look at your religion & traditions ahead of time & try to make sense of them as they relate to you.

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