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solutions to caregiver stress

As the days are becoming shorter, and darkness is upon us quicker each day, it is easy to feel stress come upon us also. We may feel we do not have enough time to plan for the holidays, and on top of caring for a senior it is making us feel stretched too thin. Stress can happen in a variety of situations but can be dealt with when you know the right solutions.

Here are some suggestions by Comfort Keepers®

• Go to your favorite restaurant and enjoy your favorite meal. Taking a night off from cooking will allow you to relax and not worry about meal prep and cleanup.

• Exercise can be a great way to relieve stress! Head down to your local gym or take a walk around the neighborhood. Take the time to enjoy sunshine while it is here!

• Throw on a comfy pair of PJ’s and watch your favorite movie. This is a great stress reliever to do with the whole family.

• Breathing exercises and YOGA have also been proven to relieve stress. Youtube is a great resource for brief yoga exercises if you are short on time.

• Don’t be afraid to lose yourself in a good book or magazine!

Be sure to check with your doctor before doing any physical activity your body is not used to doing. Even though talking about what is making you stressed might make you realize everything you are responsible for, it can also be a good reliever. Talking things out leads to planning which leads to solutions.

Caring for a senior and a family, you can be stressful but with careful planning and activities you enjoy throughout your week, you will be on your way to a reducing stress. When you are stress free, your care giving is stress free and everyone is in a much better position. Let me know if these work or if you have other ideas to add!

submitted by: Kayleigh

 

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community for those caring for an aging parent

Norma & I had the pleasure of being interviewed by KING 5 TV host, Margaret Larsen.

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my elderly dad is cared for

I have just moved from New York City to Montreal where my parents and siblings live. I am a 59yo Canadian & have two children 25 & 23yo. It was the perfect time to sell my home & move on. No more border crossings, no more long drives alone.

Now I am living in an apartment in the same building as my sister. I am on the 3rd floor , she is on the 5th. My dad lives in a retirement home 15 minutes away and my mom is still in her condo, 10 minutes from me.

This has been the best decision for my family and me. I feel a GREAT SENSE OF RELIEF being this close to my parents, at this stage of their lives.

For my dad’s & my relationship I am most grateful. I was constantly worried about his health as well as his care. For some time now, with several hospitalizations, I have seen a steady decline in his general well being. Luckily in Canada, the application for & payment of assisted living came without too many complications. His new home is well maintained & I know that his medical needs are being attended to. I could see what a challenge this was all becoming for my mom & her obvious resentment.

The way it is now, I can just drop in & brighten up my dad’s day with a 10-minute, one hour or two hour visit. Whatever we both feel like in that moment is how it works. This is bringing me peace of mind & a sense of joy.

Also, since my dad went to the nursing home, my mom is now living completely alone. I stop by to check in on her & pitch in with her chores. Although she selfishly did not want to be my dad’s caregiver, I think she misses the life they once had.

I am happy to help my three siblings, who have, so far, carried the responsibility of my elderly parents care on their own. I do not feel like this is a burden in any way. I am simply one more pair of hands or another body to be available for whatever comes up. Would love to hear comments from anyone else!

Submitted by Diane in Montreal, Canada

 

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juggling work & elder care

“Working women have long balanced their job with taking care of kids but now many are adding another ball to the juggling act – taking care of an aging parent. 41% of Baby Boomers, with a living parent, are providing at least some kind of care for them. Many are doing so while working a full time job”, reports Good Morning America series Turning Points. Leading career expert & founder of Women for Hire, Tory Johnson, shares her views about the benefits to women for staying employed while care taking. Click below for for some encouraging words!

Keeping a Job while Caring for Elderly Relative

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medications that don’t mix

medicationsOne of problems I have heard about lately, with my 84 year old Dad, is how poorly he feels (for no apparent reason). All of a sudden my dad has the jitters, feels miserable and cannot sleep. Because his complaints persisted without cause I decided to accompany him to his doctor’s appointment. This was a true education! I learned that my father has Diabetes and thyroid trouble. He is taking medication for both conditions. The physician seems to feel that the two meds are not compatible and are causing the side effects. All sorts of thoughts ran through m mind, like “why wouldn’t a physician know this?” or “who put my dad on these meds?” At any rate, I was glad to have been with my father, had an opportunity to talk with the doctor directly and problem solve to establish next steps. A word to the wise……get into those doctor appointments earlier!

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